What should you really wear as a wedding guest in 2025? With mills of etiquette blogs preaching outdated rules, it’s time for a modern, inclusive, and practical guide. This wedding guest attire guide in 2025 covers everything you need to know—from dress codes like black-tie and cocktail to styles, colors, and fabrics to avoid—so you can show up looking polished and respectful.

Here’s the truth: yes, there are rules — but they don’t have to be overwhelming. You just need a few go-to guidelines, a little context from the couple, and outfits that feel just right without trying too hard.

Let’s break it down.

These are the dresses we’re actually wearing—and recommending to every friend who texts, “Wait, what do I wear to this wedding?”

The Golden Rules of Wedding Guest Dressing

Before we shop, let’s clear up the big questions:

❌ Can you wear white?

Nope. Unless the couple specifically says so (rare), skip it. Ivory, cream, or any shade close is also off-limits.

✅ Is it OK to wear black or red to a wedding?

Absolutely — especially for evening weddings. Choose romantic fabrics like satin, chiffon, or velvet to keep it festive.

💃 What colors and styles should guests avoid?

Yes — as long as it doesn’t outshine the couple. Think bright florals, vibrant jewel tones, or a chic silhouette with an open back.

📍 How to choose guest attire by venue and dress code

Should you try to match the location / venue? Yes. A dress for a Tuscan vineyard is going to look different than one for a ballroom in New York. When in doubt, research the venue, check the couple’s website, or opt for elevated neutrals.

✨ Dressing well as a wedding guest is part etiquette, part confidence—and it helps the couple feel honored.

Use our guide to get it right, then head to the Bridal Community for more planning tools, etiquette Q&A, and real-life inspiration.